Dear Cindy
Dear Cindy,
I am shocked and saddened that some of the toti residents could respond to the recent rape "allegation" involving the Combat security guard in such a negative and downright mean and nasty way. Has it not occurred to them that this whole debacle may be more than likely a set up by certain criminal minds (operations) to undermine the CCPO's efforts and to ensure that the whole project falls flat on its face????? After all there are individuals out there that master mind the prostitution, drug and housebreaking/car theft rings, we seem them daily sitting in cars staking out our homes, hanging out at the beaches and shops, walking around at night.It would be in their best interest to run these guards, or any others out of Toti in order to claim back their territory that so far the CCPO has successfully started claiming back for us!!!!!!!!!!
How sad for us that we resort to such means to help this happen. How sad for the guard involved if he is not guilty and how sad to attack the CCPO committee members who have given so freely of their time to make our town a safer place and accuse them of corruption, theft and money racketeering (i.e. high salaries, etc). How petty that one notices the official CCPO car being used to carry shopping for a volunteer but fail to notice when a neighbour needs help, or perhaps phone your neighbour when their alarm is going off. How utterly disgusting that we are allowing the criminals to win because of one incident, that has yet to be proved. Even if it were true that the guard indeed raped this female, surely we cannot and must not undermine all of the other guards who are doing a good job, possibly at a very low salary and subjected to crime every minute of every day simply because that's his job. Could we possibly imagine how stressed these individuals must be and how hard it must be to know that when faced with a criminal or a criminal incident, his life is on the line for us???????????
I have lived in Toti for 13 years and have been robbed 9 times, 2 of them in my home, one an armed robbery and the other while we slept earlier this year. All the goods stolen were the children's stuff, they were devastated and some of the goods can never be replaced. Both of my teenage children have had countless cell phones stolen, one was mugged at Toti beach and the other at school. I replace their stationary frequently because it gets taken from them at school through intimidation, in fact it's common to be told to hand over their stuff. My daughter was even punched by a young male at school and nothing was done about the incident. It seems that we have all become so apathetic that when told of the horrendous crimes taking place in our community we shake our heads and say "how terrible" and then just move on to the next issue at hand. We are all "couch" critics and take delight at airing our views but rarely get off our butts and join in to help. I am sick of living like this and whilst I believe Toti is a wonderful place, it's overrun by crime. What good is it to live in this beautiful country, with the lovely seaside, perfect weather, big houses and gardens if you have to turn your home into a prison and stick to curfews because of fear? This is not a quality life, this is like being in a war zone, but perhaps we fail to notice our quality of life is slowly being eroded because of the crime. How can we accept that our neighbours and community members are being murdered and raped and subjected to violent crime every single day and not be outraged and deeply affected. How can we go on subjecting our children to living in these circumstances, it's not normal. Wake up Toti, you can longer afford to have the attitude that "it will never happen to me".
How nice sit in our glass houses and criticize efforts made by others and how easy to judge one man when you have not heard his side of the story.
For what it's worth, I say well done to the CCPO for giving us at the very least "hope and courage" for without these things where would we be. The initial start-up of the project with guards in and around Toti very quickly proved that as a town we could fight back and we saw the results of just how wonderful it was to able to walk around the town at night, draw money and not be harassed fearful with every step. Unfortunately unless ever resident in Toti who is under threat is prepared to pull their weight, this initiative is not sustainable in the future and we will revert back to being a crime-ridden town. As with crime, the minority will affect the majority and the same is true for the CCPO, the minority of negative residents and public who are being so small minded and petty will affect the majority of us who believe in your cause and support you.
Warmest regards and thanks to all of the CCPO members and volunteers. May you continue to go from strength to strength?
Please do not allow these small minded people to stop you from making our community a safer place.